Mom's Diary -
1945
The words, thoughts and feelings of
Ruby Roberta (Roberts) Huizenga,
a 24 year
old woman, married for 3 years, raising two children,
whose
husband entered the U.S. Navy in November of the previous year.
(As transcribed by Jim, October 2002)
This diary was found among
Mom's things after her death on
(Inside the
front cover)
Donald B Huizenga F 1/C
U.S.S. Carpellotti
C/O F.P.O.
Been to Cuba-shakedown
cruise
December -- 1945
He's now a Machinist Mate
3/C
(2nd page
inside front cover)
Mrs. Donald Huizenga
from Don's Mother
Jan. 4-1945
Don entered service
Nov. 10 - 1944
at
10 weeks Boot
8 weeks school
Syracuse, N.Y.-4 wks
Advanced School
Been at
for five months.
for five weeks.
Gets ship there.
U.S.S. Carpollotte
A.P.D. 136
Monday 1945 January 1 (This order indicates page on left.)
Norma
went home - Russ called up we went to Roberts. Awful windy
outside. Cold. Wrote to Don at nite. Aunt Minnie gave Mom & I some butter and eggs
Tuesday 1945 January 2
Cleaned house up. Not much going on. Wrote to Don.
Went to the folks in afternoon. Got
my check today.
Wednesday 1945 January 3
Dad's birthday. Got him socks & handker.
Went uptown for mail. No mail from Don. Don called up
at
January 4 Thursday 1945 (This order indicates page on right.)
Went uptown this afternoon while Jim & Judy were in bed. Got mail.
Letter from Don and from Naomi. Don wants me to come
up and get him Sat. Jan. 20. Hope I can. Will have to be
there at 7:30 A.M. Jim & Judy were awake when I got home. Stopped at Don's folks to see if they wanted to go to K3
tomorrow. Russell here this morning. 1.53
groceries, ironed, wrote to Don.
January 5 Friday 1945
Judy
pushes chairs or anything she can all over the house. Hope she walks soon. Went to
January 6 Saturday 1945
Didn't go out of the house today. Hattie & Orville are not going to
Sunday 1945 January 7
Going to
Monday 1945 January 8
Wrote to Don this morning. Judy & Jim glad to see me this morning when
they got up. Gave Dad candy bars and knife. Wrote to
Don tonite, went to town this afternoon & to
Grandma's to pay the rent. Got groceries. Snowing outside. Jimmy Kremer asked for mail for me in
afternoon but none.
Tuesday 1945 January 9
Didn't snow much. Sun shining today. Got letters from Norma & Marie. Wrote
to Donald. Kinda lonesome tonite for him. Am every
nite but more than ever tonite. Went to folks this
afternoon U. Pete Elmer were there helping Dad. Old bob died (horse) $2 for
him. Wrote to Miss Iris Bennett,
January 10 Wednesday 1945
Snowed last nite. About 5"-6"
of snow. Scooped from garage to road. Took kids outside. First time they've been out since last
Friday. Washed this afternoon. Finished
tonite. Ruth Kuipers
was over. House looked a site. Must write to Don now before I
go to bed.
January 11 Thursday 1945
Folks sale today. Total $4180.00. Things sold good. Went
there at
January 12 Friday 1945
Stayed home all-day.
Saturday 1945 January 13
Went to Gilman in the afternoon. Did shopping. Got a house-dress and pr. shoes. Snowed -- then rained
making pavement very slippery. Drove 5 miles per hour coming
home. Judy walks. Got a letter from Don. Wrote to Don.
Sunday 1945 January 14
Did not go to church today. Kids had colds. They slept all afternoon. Mom came
in afternoon. Rode home with Russell. Wrote to Don. Don's Mom called tonite.
They didn't go to church.
Monday 1945 January 15
Washed clothes this afternoon. Most of the dry too.
Wrote to Don.
January 16 Tuesday 1945
Washed my hair. Had clothes sprinkled to iron tonite but had
company. Ruth & Mrs. Kuipers
then Madeliene Conrad then U. Garrett & A.
Winnie. Wanted to do so much work, too. Didn't get anything done.
January 17 Wednesday 1945
Had
company - Don's Mother stay with kids this morning while I got my hair set. She
did some ironing too. Baked a cake. Got
a letter from Don. He goes to
January 18 Thursday 1946
Scrubbed
most or all of my floors & waxed them today. Washed some of kids clothes tonight. Russell called Dottie. She's coming
tomorrow night on bus. Meet her in Gilman at
Friday 1945 January 19
Dorothy
called this morning, has Judy's ring. She is going to bring in some eggs for
me. Got my hair combed at Lois.this afternoon. Met Dottie at bus tonight. Bus on time.
Got groceries. Brought Mom along,
too, to take care of kids tomorrow.
Saturday 1945 January 20
Don
comes home on leave. 7 days. Supposed to meet him there at
7:30 A.M. Russell & Dorothy Moore are going with me. Harry Burnett
is going to ride to
Sunday 1945 January 21
Had
dinner here for Don Hattie's & Elmer's - and Russ & Dorothy Mom -- The
Folk's were here. Went to church.
January 22 Monday 1945
Slept late. Don, the kids & I went to Watseka in afternoon to Ration board -
Went to A. Annie's. Had supper there. Saw Marie and
baby at hospital, too. Karen Ann. Don got 9 gal. gas -
30 blue points - 18 red points & 1 lb. sugar.
January 23 Tuesday 1945
Stayed
home & washed.
January 24 Wednesday 1945
Went to Grandma's in afternoon, to Don's folks too. Went to
show in Gilman nite. Bought kitchen stove from
Bert & Louise $ 12.50.
Thursday 1945 January 25
Went
to
Friday 1945 January 26
Dorothy
came back for weekend. She & Russell are going to be married Sunday -
Saturday 1945 January 27
Washed
clothes: Went to Don's folk's for supper & evening.
January 28 Sunday 1945
Went to church in afternoon. Everyone came here for tea after church. Preacher
was here too. Stayed home at night.
January 29 Monday 1945
Don
& I got up at
January 30 Tuesday 1945
Dorothy here yet. She and Russell plan to be married Sunday -
February 11- I am to be Bridesmaid & Don is supposed to be Best Man. If he can get leave.
(No entries for January 31 -
February 2)
February 3 Saturday 1945
Don
called up this morning. He's coming home on a 35- hour leave. I'm going to
February 4 Sunday 1945
We
(Don, I, & kids) went to church this afternoon. everyone
here for tea after church. Russell, Dot, I kids & Mom took Don to
February 5 Monday 1945
Didn't do anything today. Must wash tomorrow. Wrote to Don.
(No pages in the diary for
February 6 through February 17, removed for some
reason or just lost?)
(No entries for February 18
through March 3)
March 4 Sunday
Don home over weekend. Came on bus last nite. Took him to
March 5 Monday
Wrote to Don.
March 6 Tuesday
Wrote to Don.
Wednesday 1945 March 7
Wrote to Don.
Thursday 1945 March 8
Wrote to Don.
Friday 1945 March 9
Wrote to Don.
March 10 Saturday 1945
Don
came home on train tonight.
March 11 Sunday 1945
Don
has mumps. Taking him back to
(No entries for March 12
through March 16)
March 17 Saturday
Don
didn't come home this week-end.
(No entries for March 18
through March 23)
March 24 Saturday 1945
Went to Gilman. Got Don at Gilman about
Sunday 1945 March 25
Don
& I went to church. Don's mother stayed with Jim & Judy. Don & I
took Lord's Supper. Judy has had cold, sore throat and cutting teeth. Took her
to Dr. He gave her some cough medicine and pills.
Monday 1945 March 26
Up with Judy all night last night. Mom stayed with me. She is doing mine &
her washing here. I took care of Judy all day. Wrote to Don.
Didn't do anything all day.
Tuesday 1945 March 27
Up again with Judy all night. She's some better. Didn't get
anything done. Judy slept in buggy quite a bit today. Wrote
to Don.
March 28 Wednesday
Up
again with Judy all nite. She slept most of the day
today. Cleaned up my house. Took her to Dr. tonight. Went to show with Mom &
Dorothy. Wrote to Don.
March 29 Thursday
Ironed my clothes today from Monday. Cleaned
house. Wrote to Don.
March 30 Friday
Bert
& Louise have a baby boy - Paul David -- 8 lbs. 5 oz. Went to Church
tonight. Washed clothes after I got home from Church. Wrote to Don, too.
Saturday 1945 March 31
Cleaned up house. Gave kids a bath. Went to
meet
Sunday 1945 Easter April 1
Got up about
Monday 1945 April 2
Didn't do anything today. Got letters from A. Ethel &
Bonnie Miller. Kids & I got Easter Cards from Mom. Wrote to Don. Got my check today.
April 3 Tuesday 1945
Went uptown this afternoon. Paid Grocery bills. Paid
Ins. (Chg. Motor Club) and Judy's. Cashed check at bank.
April 4 Wednesday
Appointment
for hair set
April 5 Thursday 1945
Washed clothes today. Cleaned house and went to Gilman to have gas put in
the car. Came home put kids to bed.
Friday 1945 April 6
Got up at
Saturday 1945 April 7
Got
up late! Don slept longer. Don watched Jim & Judy while I did his washing. He
& Dad hauled cinders for driveway. We went to Gilman at night. Went to the show. Saw Abbott & Costello in -- "Lost
in a Harem". Good show!
Sunday 1945 April 8
Got up late. Got breakfast. We all ate together. Went to church this afternoon. I got a coughing spell in
church. Had to go out. Elmer &
Dorothy & folks here for tea. Mom, Russell & Dorothy were here
for supper. We went to Gilman so Don could find out about trains tomorrow
morning. Stopped at folks a few minutes. Came home
went to bed
April 9 Monday 1945
(At the top of this page)
Don's
been at
Don
leaves
(continuing
the daily entry) Got up at
April 10 Tuesday
Got card from Don this morn. He's still at
April 11 Wednesday
Don
called up this afternoon. Wanted me to come to
April 12 Thursday
1945
(At the top of this page)
President
Roosevelt died at
(continuing
the daily entry) Don leaves Friday for N. Y. Wish I was going with him. He'll be there 4
weeks. Hope he gets advanced school again. He'll live in a hotel at N. Y. Am
going to Gilman this morning. Wrote to Don.
Friday 1945 April 13
Went to
Saturday 1945 April 14
Got a card from Don that he smuggled out with his new address on. Am I glad.
I'll send him a letter tonight. Gosh, I miss him so much already. (added in pencil)
Rev. Helmreich died.
April 15 Sunday 1945
Went to church this morning. Went to Mom's for dinner and then we went to
Roberts this afternoon. Merlyn was to
April 16 Monday 1945
Didn't
do much today. Was lazy! Wrote to Don tonight. He
starts to school today at
April 17 Tuesday 1945
Donald's Birthday - 25. Hope he has a very happy birthday. Starts
school today. Had a letter from Don today.
Wednesday 1945 April 18
Invited to U. Fred & Aunt Jen's Wedding anniversary at Chebanse. Not going here tonite. Aunt Jen in hospital. Wrote to Don.
Got a letter from him again today.
Thursday 1945 April 19
Cleaned up house. Went to
Friday 1945 April 20
Didn't do much this morning. O'niel was here. Didn't pay him yet.
No money! Going to folk's this afternoon. Party! Kids
are taking their naps right now.
April 21 Saturday 1945
(In a departure from the
usual, this entry is in pencil.)
Cleaned
up the house today and gave Jim & Judy a bath. Dorthy
(Frericks) Carol and Mrs. Frericks
were here this afternoon. Combed Mother H. hair and set Aunt Nellie's hair. Went uptown for groceries. Went to Gilman
tonight. Was so terribly lonesome knowing Don wouldn't
be home this weekend. Wrote to Don. Sent Don proofs of our pictures.
April 22 Sunday 1945
(Continuing in pencil.)
Slept late this morning. Went to church this afternoon.
Jim & Judy were good. Had tea at folks after. Hattie
& Orville were down. Had supper there too. The
folks had company after supper. Wrote to Don.
April 23 Monday 1945
(Continuing in pencil.)
Didn't
do so very much today. Raked and mowed the lawn. Sure is a lot to do outside
yet. Wish my garden was all in. Jim & Judy were outside most of the time,
too. They had a good time. Have to watch Judy else she runs away. Got a letter from Don this morning. He's O.K. Lost his
fountain per last week. (part of it) Hope he finds it.
Wrote to Don.
Tuesday 1945 April 24
(Continuing in pencil.)
Got a letter from Don this morning. I'll have to go to N.Y. if
I want to see him before he goes to sea. Will cost me $29.44
round trip. Hope I can make it. Will hate leaving Jim
& Judy at home, tho. Hope Don says I can
come. Am going to write to Don yet tonight. Went to Gilman this afternoon.
Wednesday 1945 April 25
Didn't
do much today. Washed clothes tonight. Had a letter from Don today. Was surprised! I'm glad to get
it, tho. Set Don's Mom's hair tonite.
She is going to Conference in
710
Gilman - next afternoon
(No entries Thursday April
26 through Monday April 30.)
Tuesday 1945 May 1
Getting ready to take a trip to
Wednesday 1945 May 2
Leaving to for Syracuse N. Y. on
May 3 Thursday 1945
Did not sleep on train at all from
May 4 Friday 1945
Don
left this morning for school. We went to U.S.O. tonight and supper at Val's. We
are going to
May 5 Saturday 1945
Went uptown early this morning. Am supposed to meet Donald
& Gordon & Jeanne Wright at N.Y.C. Station. Cost $7.50 for
tickets to (Niagra)
Sunday 1945 May 6
Got hotel rooms at $5.
Monday 1945 May 7
Had a beer after U.S.O. Got mad at Don. Got into
Tuesday 1945 May 8
Don
went to school as usual. Went to Val's for supper. Then
went to U.S.O. to play pinochle with Mr. & Mrs.
Unger --- Red & his girl. Did group singing in Snack Bar, pictures taken.
May 9 Wednesday 1945
Slept late. Called Jeanne. Washed some
clothes for Don. Jeanne & I went to a show. Then met Don & Gordon at Carrier's & went to supper. We four
went to a show after going home to clean up.
May 10 Thursday 1945
Jeanne
is going (starting) home at
May 11 Friday 1945
I'm
leaving at Midnite tonight to go home. Wish I didn't
have to. Don leaves
Saturday 1945 may 12
Don
left
Sunday 1945 May 13
Jimmy's birthday. He's 3 yrs. old today. Mom, Russell & Dorothy
stayed here last night. they gave Mom a big hydrangea.
Baked Jim a birthday cake.
Monday 1945 May 14
Miss Don so much now.
(No entries Tuesday May 15 through
Friday May 18.)
Saturday 1945 May 19
Don
came home for weekend on
Sunday 1945 May 20
Went to Church --- To Gilman to see Mom & kids. Mom, Russell, Dorothy, Jim,
Judy, & I took Don to
May 21 Monday 1945
Wrote to Don.
May 22 Tuesday 1945
Wrote to Don.
May 23 Wednesday 1945
Letter to Don. Sent him a box of cookies.
Thursday 1945 May 24
Letter from Don. Wrote to Don.
Friday 1945 May 25
Washed today. Went to Ed Frericks this
afternoon to see Dorothy about going to Alumni - banquet Tuesday. Wrote to Don.
Saturday - 1945 May 26
Got card from Don this morning. He's coming home on leave Monday. 15 days. Not
bad. Went to Gilman to Mom's. Took
flowers to cemetary to Dad's grave. Had supper in Gilman.
May 27 Sunday 1945
Went to church this morning. Taking kids' pictures. Don
came this
May 28 Monday
Washed. Got my hair set in afternoon. Don stayed with Jim & Judy. Went for a walk after supper. Stopped at A. Alice' and
folks.
May 29 Tuesday
Went to Alumni Banquet tonite. Alice
Hale, Dorothy Berg, Verna Marberry - Maxine (Johnson)
- Don & I there from our class. Had fun! Was to
Elmer & Dorothy's awhile this
Wednesday May 30
Decoration Day. Stayed home. Went to Folk's
for dinner. Russ Dorothy Don & I went to Carnival in K3
at nite. Got home about
Thursday May 31
Raining today. Sun came out awhile this afternoon. Must finish ironing & clean
house up.
(No entries Friday June 1
through Tuesday June 5)
Wednesday 1945 June 6
Mom's
birthday
(No entries Thursday June 7
through Monday July 16)
Tuesday 1945 July 17 (The date was circled.)
(In blue ink.) Don & I have been Married 4 yrs. Our Wedding Annivesery. (In
dark black ink.) He did
not send me anything or call me. Was sort of hoping he would (Finally, in lighter black ink.) He's in
(No entries Wednesday July
18 through Wednesday July 25)
July 26 Thursday
Wrote to Don.
July 27 Friday
Cleaned up house today. Am going to Gilman with Helen De Vries to see about detassling
corn.
(No entries Saturday July 28
through Tuesday September 4)
Wednesday September 5
Left
Danforth at
September 5 Thursday
Slept late. Got in at midnite last nite. Had late breakfast. A.
Jessie & U. H surprised. Wrote to Don
September 7 Friday
Did some shopping. Got Judy pr. of shoes. Myself too. Some kerchiefs. Wrote to Don. Met U. Howard after work.
September 8 Saturday
Did some washing. Ironing too. U. Howard - I
Russell & Dorothy went to the 40 - 8 Club tonite.
Danced etc. Had a fairly good time.
Got in about one.
Sunday September 9
Went to Boy's Town. Saw some prisoners of war, too.
Monday September 10
Left
Omaha about 7 or 8 in morning. Got home about
Tuesday September 11
Did my Washing. Don's folks going to take Aunt Lora back to Jackson Michigan. Surprised!
They left today -- no tomorrow mornin Wrote to
Don.
September 12 Wednesday
Got Folks' mail. May go to
(No entries for Thursday
September 13 or Friday September 14.)
Saturday September 15
Sent Don a telegram today to his ship. If I hear from him tomorrow
I'll start Monday for
Sunday September 16
Got telegram from Don. Supposed to go to
Monday September 17
Janel's birthday. Left this
morning at four-thirty. I drove our car. Got to
September 18 Tuesday;
Left
September 19 Wednesday
Got rooms & bath at
September 20 Thursday
Slept 'til
Friday September 21
Went over a Mt. 3,175 ft. high. Had no car trouble at all.
Have to have oil changed before we go back. Wish Don could go too. Cost 22.50
for rooms $2 got back for keys.
Saturday September 22
Don
got in last nite at
Sunday September 23
Went to show tonite - no last Went to
U.S.O. tonite. Mom stayed in room.
(No
entries Monday September 24 through October 15.)
October 16
Elmer's birthday.
(No entries October 17
through October 20.)
October 21
Orville's
birthday
(No
entries October 22 through October 24.)
October 25
My (Ruby) birthday. 25 yrs. old.
October 26
Yvonne
(Bremer) Elliott's birthday.
October 27
Sterly's birthday.
(No entries October 28
through November 4)
November 5 Monday 1945
Russell's birthday. Jeanne & Gordon have baby boy. James Wayne born today.
November 6 Tuesday
Norma's
birthday
(No entry for Wednesday
November 7 and Thursday November 8.)
Friday November 9
Uncle Gordon's birthday. Had Surprise Birthday party on
Norma & U. Gordon. Aunt Gusta - Mary - A. Vina, U. Sam - Earl- Cleo - Maurice there too.
Saturday November 10
Don's
been in the Navy a year today. Was raining and cold when he left last year. Took him to Watseka to catch train
yr. ago. Then I went back to K3 with kids to wait til I heard from Don.
(No entries from Sunday
November 11 through Wednesday November 21.)
Thursday November 22
Thanksgiving Day.
November 23 Friday
(With this entry begins the
missing by mouse entries, as indicated by the (---).)
I
moved to Danforth a yr. ago today..
My Mom help(---) me move. Moving
Van.
(No
entries from Saturday November 24 through Thursday November 29.)
November 30 Friday
Wrote to Don.
December 1 Saturday 1945
Army
- Navy football game. Army won. Listened to it over the
radio. Don didn't get to go. No tickets. They listened aboard ship.
Sunday December 2
(At the top of the page.) Russ has '42
(Daily entry.) Did not go to church today.
(---)
Gilman for dinner. Had a
(---)
in Russ' new car - Went to
(---toul) (
(No entries Monday December
3 and Tuesday December 4.)
December 5 Wednesday 1945
(At the top of the page.) Dorothy R. Birthday
(Daily entry.) Took
Hattie to
Mom
went al(---) took Jim along, left Judy & Kay at
December 6 Thursday
Did my washing. Some for folks. Don's Mother has flu. She's
better. Wrote to Don. Got seven
letters from Don.
December 7 Friday
Didn't do so very much. Went to a play that Mom & Dot
were in at Gilman. Had lunch there. Wrote to Don. Got a letter from Don.
Saturday December 8
Cleaned
up house: Went
(---)
Gilman tonite and to
(---) show. Saw "Brewsters Millions"
(---)t bad! Wrote to Don as usual.
Sunday December 9
Went to church this afternoon. Judy wouldn't sit still. Had
tea at folks. Mom fells pretty good. Kenny & Dale stayed there
during church. Wrote to Don.
Monday December 10
Didn't do my washing. Went to Gilman after Ma's
curtains stretchers. Got curtains from kids bedroom stretched & back
to windows! Don's Mother in bed again. Still of the flu. Got her lace cloth to
stretch. Wrote to Don. Had oil changed in car. No. 10.
December 11 Tuesday
Stretched
some more curt(---)
Hope
I get them all done. (---)
am
stretching table cloth (---)
Wrote to Don. No mail from him today. Cold out today.
December 12 Wednesday
Very cold out today too. Couldn't get car started at first. When Dad got
here then it started. went to town for groceries. No
mail. Snowing tonite. Wrote to Don. Kenny had cast taken off - lighter one put on
leg. Not to walk on it.
December 13 Thursday
Stretched some more curtains. Got mail - Redbook. Mom
Russell & Dorothy came for supper. Had waffles. Wrote to Don. Snowed all day. Slippery. Don's Mom in bed with flu.
Friday December 14
(---)t all my curtains washed
(---)tretched. Cleaned
up house.
(---)I
hear from Don today. Took
(---)s stretchers back to Gilman - No mail from Don. Wrote Don.
Saturday December 15
2 ° above zero this morning. No mail from Don yet. Don's Mother better. She's up today. Got
my work all done. 1 °
below zero now at
Sunday
December 16
Zero
outside today. Slept on Studio Couch last nite.
Not going to church today too cold for kids. Hope I hear from Don tomorrow. Wrote to Don. My Mom was here a few minutes tonite. Russell drove here to warm up car. Just Mom came
in.
December 17 Monday
Rev.
Versteeg pulled out car this m(---)
Went
to Gilman this afternoon (---)
Washed today too. Don came h(---)
about
December 18 Tuesday
Don
& sailor from
December 19 Wednesday
Didn't
do much today. Went up town for groceries. Elmer here. Took his car to Gilman.
We're going to show tonite. Kids & Don took a nap
afternoon.
Thursday December 20
Don
is supposed to start (---) leave today.
(No entries Friday December
21 through Sunday December 23.)
December 24 Monday
Kay's birthday. 2 yrs. old.
December 25 Tuesday
Christmas
Day
Wednesday December 26
Judy's birthday - 2 yrs. old.
(No entries were made for
the rest of 1945.)
(In the back of the Daily
Reminder Dairy that Mom used was information on Postal Rates. First class
letters were 3 cents for each one and post cards were 1 cent each. First class
Special Delivery was 10 cents for 2 lbs. or less).
(Inside the back cover in
ink.)
Mrs.
Donald Huizenga
Danforth, Ill.
1945
(In pencil.)
Don's
new address:
April 14 (---)
Donald
"B" Huizenga F 1/C
T.T.
Sch. (Refrigeration)
Carrier
Corporation